Son reflects on grief after parents choose duo-euthanasia

In June 2024, a Dutch couple named Jan and Els chose to end their lives together via duo-euthanasia at a local hospice. Jan had suffered from continuous pain after years of hauling cargo on waterways, while Els had been diagnosed with dementia. Their son, Bas, drove them to their fatal appointment while grappling with conflicted feelings. Although he supported their choice, he had unsuccessfully tried to persuade them to delay their deaths. More than two years later, Bas opened up about the heavy emotional burden and profound loneliness of being left behind. Duo-euthanasia remains rare in the Netherlands, though it is legal.